My oldest mother said so. I’m cosplaying a good mother-in-law with my daughters-in-law.She’s pretending to be a good daughter-in-law, too. Anyone can tell she’s having an invisible fight.I don’t want to worry about it. My oldest mother keeps passing things on to my mom…But she doesn’t even think we’re doing it. If the oldest mother’s children do it, they won’t know, but you’re telling them not to move their hands. Meanwhile, my oldest mother tried to make me do it whenever she had time (she took a fly swatter and tissue in my hand to catch a fly because she had nothing to do with it. So when she didn’t see her, she threw it to the floor right away). I never ask my brother to do it. When a man goes to the kitchen, he actually spits out the pepper.